i’ve known debbie since 1977. i’m not sure if i found her or she found me. doesn’t matter. she became one of my college roommates when i desperately needed one. i plan on writing about that someday. she is still my dear friend today. she has taught me many things. one of them is how to retire. i recently visited her and her husband, kim in vero beach, florida, where they live part of their lives. they showed me a different way to live. joyful, relaxed, uncluttered and together. i learned retirement from a different perspective. and at the end of the day, it is all about perspective. we picked up some sea shells and i had some fun.